When a famous figure, a celebrity, dies there
is, quite rightly, a great outpouring of sympathy for his family and lots of
newspaper eulogies. The Internet ensures that folk around the world know within
hours that they have passed away. But
what happens when Mr or Mrs Unfamous dies?
There is a funeral – more frequently
referred to nowadays as a celebration of their life. There may be a notice (paid for) in the local
newspaper. Grief-stricken and harassed
relatives have to phone around friends and colleagues of the deceased – assuming
they know who they were. And twelve
months later only the very closest of their family are likely to recall the anniversary
of their death. The Times won’t publish an Obituary and in a couple of
generations folk researching their family history will wonder who he or she was
and what they were like.
On Saturday I learned of the
death of a former colleague at Knowsley Borough Council, Ken Johnson. He died at the end of February but I wasn’t
aware of it until meeting mutual acquaintances last Saturday. Ken held a very
senior position within the Council but definitely, like most of us, ranked
among the 'unfamous'.
Ken and I swapped Christmas cards
and the occasional Facebook message and he is one of the Council officers I
held in the highest regard. He was
honest, skillful, personable, helpful, caring and did his job to the very best
of his ability, notwithstanding long-term health issues about which he made no
fuss. A man I am proud to have
known. One could hardly ask for a better
eulogy than that.
His first wife, Sue, died when
his son, Matt, was quite young and more recently he became engaged and seemed
blissfully happy. So my sympathies go
especially to Alison and Matt but also to Ken himself that he should have
missed out on a potentially wonderful future and that his name will hardly go
down on record anywhere in a way that will capture what a special person he
was. He may have been 'unfamous' but he
was nevertheless one in a million.