When we moved into
our house it had no name, only a confusing number – 1A.
Confusing because 1A
would normally come after no 1. Ours is
the first house in th road and therefore comes before no 1. And on the electoral register it comes after
all the other numbers, right at the other end of the road, so no one can ever find it.
So we gave it a
name. There was a medium sized (now huge) Weeping Willow
in the front garden and we planted another there and a Corkscrew Willow in the
back garden. And we called the house The
Willows.
What we did not know
was that in Chinese a ‘House of Willow’ is a brothel. I wonder what our Chinese neighbours thought
of the name? Perhaps we should have put up a notice like this one that I found on the Internet!
In traditional Chinese symbolism, a young girl is a 'Tender willow and fresh flower'.
And there are lots of traditions concerning the ability of the willow to repel ghosts and the giving of a willow branch to encourage someone to stay.
The Dictionary of
Chinese Symbols: Hidden Symbols in Chinese Life and Thought (Routledge) also
informs one that “The willow, much valued as firewood, is a symbol of
spring. As spring is the season of
erotic awakenings, the phrase ‘Willow
feelings and flower wishes’ means sexual desire; ‘Looking
for flowers and buying willows’ means visiting a prostitute; ‘Flowers and willows by the wayside’ are
prostitutes; and ‘Sleeping among flowers
and reposing beneath willows’ is a term for visiting a brothel.
My Facebook friend, author Ann Chin, points out that
since we are not in China it doesn’t matter that we live at The Willows but I
still find it most amusing!